I actually need some help..

4-8Fan Posts : 762 Join date : 2009-11-05 Age : 30

Alright so.. my girlfriend.. that's what this is about.. shes not supposed to be dating but we have been for almost 2 months now.. and I really want to just talk to her mom about it.. and I started to.. but I had to leave.. like I told her what I wanted to talk about.. and that's about it.. and now I can't seem to do anything else.. her mom said we'd continue the talk the next time.. well it didnt happen and it still hasn't and I can't seem to just bring myself to do it.. I tryed asking this on a different forum and got 5 posts out of 100 that werent retarded.. a third of them said grow some balls.. I was done with it and Im not in the mood for any stupid replies.. please..any ACTUAL help is appreciated..

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Thu Mar 25, 2010 7:09 am

solidshark91493 wrote:: Alright so.. my girlfriend.. that's what this is about.. shes not supposed to be dating but we have been for almost 2 months now.. and I really want to just talk to her mom about it.. and I started to.. but I had to leave.. like I told her what I wanted to talk about.. and that's about it.. and now I can't seem to do anything else.. her mom said we'd continue the talk the next time.. well it didnt happen and it still hasn't and I can't seem to just bring myself to do it.. I tryed asking this on a different forum and got 5 posts out of 100 that werent retarded.. a third of them said grow some balls.. I was done with it and Im not in the mood for any stupid replies.. please..any ACTUAL help is appreciated..

This might come out like it's negative, but it isn't.

Go there. talk. speak. state the obvious. scream if you must.
and if you can't, just give up.
Love is love. don't make the mistake I made. you'll regret it for the rest of your life.

4-8Fan Posts : 762 Join date : 2009-11-05 Age : 30

dude thats pretty much the same thing as grow some balls.. just in different words..

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Thu Mar 25, 2010 10:58 am

solidshark91493 wrote:: dude thats pretty much the same thing as grow some balls.. just in different words..

well, i cant help you with your problems really, i just gave a description as to what you should do... there is no other way i can explain it.

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Thu Mar 25, 2010 2:15 pm

if you love her so much just like do some romantic stuff send a valentimes just keep trying until you get her back

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Thu Mar 25, 2010 4:35 pm

I already gave you my advice, so that's all I can really do.

Just remember, true love can defeat any boundary. If it is true love, that is, and you never know when you find true love.

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Thu Mar 25, 2010 6:45 pm

they dont know? my friend just got dumped, because his gf's parents forced her to breakup, and now he's really depressed....

4-8Fan Posts : 762 Join date : 2009-11-05 Age : 30

one.. blood... thats about what I expected.. two.. I dont need to get her "back".. shes my girlfriend.. lol and yeah death I know.. I just dont remember what you said really.. XD

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Fri Mar 26, 2010 6:21 am

solidshark91493 wrote:: one.. blood... thats about what I expected.. two.. I dont need to get her "back".. shes my girlfriend.. lol and yeah death I know.. I just dont remember what you said really.. XD

in other words you have no idea what i wrote.

4-8Fan Posts : 762 Join date : 2009-11-05 Age : 30

no, I know exactly what you wrote and thats pretty much the answer I expexcted from you..

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Fri Mar 26, 2010 4:58 pm

solidshark91493 wrote:: no, I know exactly what you wrote and thats pretty much the answer I expexcted from you..

Blood was giving the advice he could give giving the circumstances, take it or leave it.

4-8Fan Posts : 762 Join date : 2009-11-05 Age : 30

There was really no advice there.... so I'll leave it.. aside from you death I got the rest of what I needed really from the other forum Im on... but I need some...umm whats it called.. "pumping up" I guess? I need a little encouragement =D

4-8Fan Posts : 762 Join date : 2009-11-05 Age : 30

also guys! the picture as my picture here now is my girlfriend! Very Happy

the picture is from about a year ago.. she has braces now.. I wont leave her as my picture for long.. just for awhile XD

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Sat Mar 27, 2010 9:10 pm

solidshark91493 wrote:: There was really no advice there.... so I'll leave it.. aside from you death I got the rest of what I needed really from the other forum Im on... but I need some...umm whats it called.. "pumping up" I guess? I need a little encouragement =D

You know, I'm sorry, but I really need to let this out.

Solid, we all care for your situation and we all, especially me, relate to your troubles. But to be honest, it's not our job to help you. We gave you what we could, but it's up to you to decide how you are going to deal with this. We gave you our advice, and all you have said is that it isn't good enough. Well, that's not our problem Solid, it's yours. I'm not trying to sound mean here, honestly I'm not, but I'm sure you have friends that are there for you, and more importantly you have your girlfriend to help you through this. We gave you what we could and now it's time for you to man up and do something.

I'm always here to help you, but not everybody will do that for you. Blood gave his advice, so let him be.

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Sat Mar 27, 2010 9:14 pm

death_unites_us wrote:

solidshark91493 wrote:: There was really no advice there.... so I'll leave it.. aside from you death I got the rest of what I needed really from the other forum Im on... but I need some...umm whats it called.. "pumping up" I guess? I need a little encouragement =D

You know, I'm sorry, but I really need to let this out.

Solid, we all care for your situation and we all, especially me, relate to your troubles. But to be honest, it's not our job to help you. We gave you what we could, but it's up to you to decide how you are going to deal with this. We gave you our advice, and all you have said is that it isn't good enough. Well, that's not our problem Solid, it's yours. I'm not trying to sound mean here, honestly I'm not, but I'm sure you have friends that are there for you, and more importantly you have your girlfriend to help you through this. We gave you what we could and now it's time for you to man up and do something.

I'm always here to help you, but not everybody will do that for you. Blood gave his advice, so let him be.

Sorry death but i have to say that was sorta harsh.

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Sat Mar 27, 2010 9:18 pm

Saint570 wrote:: Sorry death but i have to say that was sorta harsh.

I disagree.

The only thing I have heard after I've honestly given him advice is that it's not enough. And now he's asking for a "boost"?

Listen, I love you like a brother Solid, but you shouldn't be going around asking everybody for advice. Advice comes to you, advice is given to you from somebody who can tell you are hurt and who cares. If he really expects that everybody on this forum will take time out of their day to help him with his problems, he's wrong. Most people don't care about other people's problems. On the other hand, I do, so I'm giving him advice, man up and do what you think is right.

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Sat Mar 27, 2010 9:22 pm

death_unites_us wrote:

Saint570 wrote:: Sorry death but i have to say that was sorta harsh.

I disagree.

The only thing I have heard after I've honestly given him advice is that it's not enough. And now he's asking for a "boost"?

Listen, I love you like a brother Solid, but you shouldn't be going around asking everybody for advice. Advice comes to you, advice is given to you from somebody who can tell you are hurt and who cares. If he really expects that everybody on this forum will take time out of their day to help him with his problems, he's wrong. Most people don't care about other people's problems. On the other hand, I do, so I'm giving him advice, man up and do what you think is right.

your probably right... i'm really sensitive to peoples feeling if that makes sense.

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Sat Mar 27, 2010 9:35 pm

Bloodharbringer wrote:

solidshark91493 wrote:: Alright so.. my girlfriend.. that's what this is about.. shes not supposed to be dating but we have been for almost 2 months now.. and I really want to just talk to her mom about it.. and I started to.. but I had to leave.. like I told her what I wanted to talk about.. and that's about it.. and now I can't seem to do anything else.. her mom said we'd continue the talk the next time.. well it didnt happen and it still hasn't and I can't seem to just bring myself to do it.. I tryed asking this on a different forum and got 5 posts out of 100 that werent retarded.. a third of them said grow some balls.. I was done with it and Im not in the mood for any stupid replies.. please..any ACTUAL help is appreciated..

This might come out like it's negative, but it isn't.

Go there. talk. speak. state the obvious. scream if you must.
and if you can't, just give up.
Love is love. don't make the mistake I made. you'll regret it for the rest of your life.

tbh i really hope the best for you solid but that is what i would do so it is good advice. not that i know anything bout girls...

4-8Fan Posts : 762 Join date : 2009-11-05 Age : 30

yeah yeah mike I know.. I dont actually think that everyone here can solve my problems.. I just come here for input... and as for the boost? I actually really need it.. lol when people do that I usually end up doing it.. but I AM TOTALLY DOING IT TOMORROW MORNING!! haha yes Razz

So .. thx to all I suppose.. and btw.. whatcha guys think? shes beautiful no? Very Happy

you were all like Shocked

and I was like Laughing

because well its funny XD

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Sun Mar 28, 2010 3:46 am

solidshark91493 wrote:: and btw.. whatcha guys think? shes beautiful no?

you lucky dog you!

4-8Fan Posts : 762 Join date : 2009-11-05 Age : 30

lolz I guess thats a yes..

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Sun Mar 28, 2010 12:18 pm

solidshark91493 wrote:: yeah yeah mike I know.. I dont actually think that everyone here can solve my problems.. I just come here for input... and as for the boost? I actually really need it.. lol when people do that I usually end up doing it.. but I AM TOTALLY DOING IT TOMORROW MORNING!! haha yes So .. thx to all I suppose.. and btw.. whatcha guys think? shes beautiful no? you were all like and I was like because well its funny XD

Good for you Solid. I'm sorry I was harsh, but I am glad you are acting. Good luck from 4-8Productions Wink

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Well.. I did it.. and it wasnt as bad as I thought it would be.. she said she doesnt want her to date.. RIGHT NOW.. because shes only 14 and she gave me the whole I dont want her to get her heartbroken in her first relationship thing and you know I get that.. its her momma.. she doesnt want to let her baby girl go.. and I told her I respect that and Im willing to wait.. and she said.. we'll as time goes on.. we'll see.. so it wasnt really a NO.. it was a NOT NOW.. =D so I figure it went great lol

Subject: Re: I actually need some help.. Mon Mar 29, 2010 1:44 pm

solidshark91493 wrote:: Well.. I did it.. and it wasnt as bad as I thought it would be.. she said she doesnt want her to date.. RIGHT NOW.. because shes only 14 and she gave me the whole I dont want her to get her heartbroken in her first relationship thing and you know I get that.. its her momma.. she doesnt want to let her baby girl go.. and I told her I respect that and Im willing to wait.. and she said.. we'll as time goes on.. we'll see.. so it wasnt really a NO.. it was a NOT NOW.. =D so I figure it went great lol

I'm very glad to hear it, and let me just say you handled the situation very maturely and I'm very proud of you. I figured a boy like you would tell her "but i wanna date her!" and just argue, but the fact that you realized arguing wouldn't help the situation and you just agreed with what she was saying even if it wasn't in your best interest, I seriously give you a lot of respect for that.

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yay lol good to know.. and yeah I didnt really "disagree" with anything she said.